I realize that my H is only human, and deep inside me, I want him to be well and happy, even if it's without me.
And this ^^^^ is true LOVE.
Ya know sometimes things happen for a reason Punkin. I believe that all things work at the time and in the manner that they are suppose to.
Punkin - You need to grieve your old M. You really need to let it go. After you let it go, you will begin the process of healing. You will begin the process of getting a place where Punkin will feel very comfortable with Punkin.
You are a women of great strength - it is obvious in your post.
So what are you going to do with this strength P?
60 days - fu*k 60 days. Stop looking at the time. Stop worrying about it. Why are you worried? Don't believe that things can change in 60 days? Don't believe in the love that you have for your H? Com'on girlie...you know better than to be focused on some timeline.
If anyone has a timeline it should be YOU. Do you know why YOU should have the timeline? Tell me please - I would love to hear your response.
BTW...as a grandma ....do you bake cookies? Please say yes...please...pretty please.
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I've faced the fact that if I had not placed him on such high pedestal in the first place, he couldn't have fallen so far
The issue is not that you put him on the pedestal - no - the real issue is WHY did YOU but HIM on the pedestal. So why did you? Be honest...Punkin....start digging girl. Let me know if you need my shovel.
Is Punkin not a wonderful woman?
Is Punkin not what Punkin wants to be?
Is Punkin not strong?
Is Punkin comfortable in her skin?
WHo the hel* is Punkin outside of her M?
Who is Punkin when the going get's tough?
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
