How should I proceed now? Is there hope?

[Dagny-2]

NCU,

One thing my C said to me that I thought struck a nerve, is that as women we tend to love the potential our H could be, not the person they are. I never thought I did that, but there might be a grain of truth in it. We know they can be so much better, but somehow they don't live up to it. I guess they can feel that? I don't know, trying to figure them out is like nailing jello to the wall.

I agree, it is some crisis they have. I refuse to believe he didn't love me at all during the years, he did, I know it, but something did change, I know that too. And I wish I knew what it was, but I probably will never know. I think letting him go and keeping your contact at the bare minimum will let him know that if he is unhappy, it is not because of you or your children, but rests within him. Until they figure it out, there is nothing we can do to help them, my thoughts. What happened last time for me. Stay Strong!

Oxy, I love your goal of talking to someone new every day. Great idea!

Dagny