I'll throw the other side out there. My STBXW keeps telling our girls we'll always be just friends and from every thing I see she has zero feelings for me. That hurts as well.
I don't if that's worse than having someone who at least cares, but not enough to save things.
A great book to read is "I Do Again." It's about a couple that remarried seven years after the D.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6