I want YOU to know that if you confront your H - he may deny it. He more than likely will. They almost always do. So YOU will now need to ask youself...is this what you really want. Do you really want this M. Can you really forgive your H. All very tough questions.
Even if you decide this is no longer what you want I want you to remember that feelings change. People change.
In your anger try as best you can to not hurl all of the chit his way. In the future your feelings and his issues may change - at that point you may want to consider reconciling and it is much easier to do that when you do not have all of the hurtful words stored in memory.
I am not saying not to confront I am saying if you do it. DO it with love and diginity. Do it in a manner that is facual - not a scream fest.
If you confront expect a backlash from your H. I would do what you need to do to protect yourself and your family.
Once again my prayers are with you.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
