Thank you, Virginia, for your attempt at getting this forum back to DB principles.
I hope you will continue to monitor this forum and offer suggestions/advice that are consistent with DBing. People here are hurting, and their children are hurting too. I will even go as far as to say that the cheating spouse must be hurting in some way, as well. Creating animosity certainly seems counterproductive to healing a family. Furthermore, giving children information/details is downright harmful and abusive.
I hope that this article will give many folks lots to think about. I also hope that they will see that disagreeing with "commando exposure" is not the same as condoning an affair.
