He also said maybe it's best we D and then work on our R and then move in together and then later in 1-2 years get M'ed again.
OMG Sol... My H said this to me a few months ago. "We can always just get married again." WTF? No way jose!! Right now, I don't see how that's possible!!
However, my C says that lots of couples do it. Get remarried again. I don't know if I could ever do that. Betrayal... Abandonment... I guess it might depend on the sitch... I'm proud of you for standing your ground. You're coming along nicely. Good for you!
When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.