I did a search for women's organizations in my area and found one that offered seminars on surviving divorce. The finances, rejoining the work force, etc. I'm not saying to plan for divorce-but getting information that will help you understand that you will survive this regardless of the outcome might help you to feel less desperate.
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
