Women want security - and I feel I have NONE right now - that H could simply change his mind about the M at any moment ....
Security is an illusion. There's no such thing. Anyone, at any time, can just say they're done and walk away. How many people here saw the bomb coming? One minute they're secure, the next minute they're not. My life was 'secure' until it all crumbled down like a house of cards in an instant. Didn't yours?
All of life is like this. We want to BELIEVE we are secure. It's the belief of security that you have until you're insecure, not actual security.
It's an illusion. The only thing secure and constant in this world is CHANGE. Nothing ever remains the same.
Drop the desire for 'security' and accept the reality nothing is secure. Once you stop desiring reality, you won't need the illusion of having it. Now that would be a wonderful thing.
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