The talking naturally comes easier with time. I only have a few more months practicing than you, and I'm getting better at it already It was very hard for me, because my time was spent working on the yard, garden, pets and house. When he left, so did a lot of 'our' friends, since he was the outgoing friendly one and I was the shy one. One of my 180s is to have at least one conversation a day with someone I've never spoken to. Even a short exchange in line at the market counts....just as long as I'm trying to practice being more warm and open-because I need a lot of practice!
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
It was very hard for me, because my time was spent working on the yard, garden, pets and house. When he left, so did a lot of 'our' friends, since he was the outgoing friendly one and I was the shy one. One of my 180s is to have at least one conversation a day with someone I've never spoken to. Even a short exchange in line at the market counts....just as long as I'm trying to practice being more warm and open-because I need a lot of practice!
