Well I fianlly asked him to move out. The problem is that I know how importnat he is in the kids lives so we have agreed to move in and out of the house instead of the kids. 2 days on, then 2 days away. I HATE this because I've been the one who has been home with them all of their years, but I realize his importance. I can no longer watch him be happy when the kids are around then when they arent in the room with us, he is texting like crazy.
I have so much anger. I just dont know if I will ever recover from this. It all seems like a delicate game that has to be played and I dont know if I have the strength.
The kids have also moved into anger and while we used to be close, they are slowly moving away by not spending time at home. I hate him for this, but I know I have to somehow pull it together. If I continue to be angry and sad, they will drift to him because he is happy.
CRUSHED!!!! Any advice on how to walk that fine line? He wants to be friends..is it possible with this anger and my emtional attachment to him? Anyone ever deal with this situation?
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
