Coach told me that when I said my W and I were like newly weds was that she was trying to get that loving feeling back. So if that is the case that was probably what your H was doing. We were so blind to all of it we thought that everything was going to okay....then Bam!
I agree GAL is difficult because I am having a good time and then think it would be even better if my W was here. I know that there is no specific timeline on this sitch. I think my W has internalized this just like she did with my A so I could be here to infinity. However, I have more respect for myself than that and know that there is someone out there who would appreciate what I can offer so I will wait, but not forever.