I feel too that it is too early to start D procedures. I still have emails in fact June 25th where she asking "when I will be home because she couldn't wait to kiss me and hug me and that she loved me so very much!" In fact I am to the point that if my W wants the D she will have to proceed. I am getting frustrated with limbo or the lack of action.
I sent the email yesterday after much debate on my part and with other posters weighing in an both sides. Although, it is counter to me letting her go I thought it was only right to acknowledge her birthday. I added a little humor and told her that I spent the night baking her a cupcake, but couldn't get it through the email.
I am doing my GAL and posted pictures on my Facebook account in the hopes that she is checking it out...who knows. I know she still has all of my emails that I have sent and recently updated her internet dating site with proper English so I don't think that there is a significant OM yet.
They keep saying GAL GAL GAL!!! detach detach detach and I know it is the right thing to do. We have to prepare as though they will no longer be in our lives. However, with my W and no NC going on 10 weeks now my mind as an engineer is to investigate WHY!
