Kalni, EVERY sitch is different so I cannot say what is really going on with yours or your H (beside your H being a man and My W is a woman) BUT I am beginning to really believe that there is truly a "Fog" like my wife kind of had an out of body experience. Like she was living two lives. Her real life here with us and her "soap opera" life. talking the other night she stated about how "husbands" sometimes Need sex more that wives, I asked her does she think that is why some husbands have "affairs?" she said probably.. I then asked her does she think it is alright for them to have affairs. She said no... So you see I really think she thinks of her affair with the cheating husband as "the other woman".
YES I have photos also... Can't seem to throw them away yet. I do not have E-mails... but for a while way back..(Two years ago) I did keep a record of phone calls. It seemed the OM would call W from a pay phone (he lives in another state) and have her call him back. ( I traced over 15 phone booths in Washington) anyway the phone calls were actually happening several times a day at first... then about twice a day..... Then maybe once a week. I do not know if they are still talking but I really don't think so. Even though I do not know what was said in those calls... the tapering off to me does seem like the interest was fading. In fact the way my wife was acting (back then) I think the OM just wanted a piece of @ss and took advantage of my wife. I think it became a fatal attraction time thing with her. And he just wanted the one night stand but she really thought he cared. I hope things work out for you. I feel that I have finely made it past the point of no return and things are just getting better and better. I can’t describe the feeling of getting over that hill I have grown and so has my wife. I now am really confident at to where I am but I want to become better. I need work now on getting what I want... not just what would keep us together
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
