AT this point, I cannot worry what he finds "attractive" I have lived too long trying to meet his needs and pull his interest back toward the M with consistent disappointment. Right now I am intersted in what might encourage him to see that what he is doing is hurting our son, me and our marriage.

Last night I failed at DB- tried to talk and explain my worries, why do I keep thinking he will understand?

So I need action. A clear list of actions.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship