Hi sandi2, Thank you very much for your comments, they are very much in line with my take on the situation. The split up of assets is a little difficult but manageable. I will give much thought to it in the next few days. I will hold on the D. I am working on myself and even I can see the improvement, I feel quite happy about life at the moment; I am not pursuing her and am prepared to give her time.
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259 M:64 W:45 Married: 08/07/2000 No children Bomb drop:05/04/2010 Moved out:05/04/2010