Hi sandi2,
Thank you very much for your comments, they are very much in line with my take on the situation. The split up of assets is a little difficult but manageable. I will give much thought to it in the next few days. I will hold on the D.
I am working on myself and even I can see the improvement, I feel quite happy about life at the moment; I am not pursuing her and am prepared to give her time.


My sitch:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2074259#Post2074259
M:64
W:45
Married: 08/07/2000
No children
Bomb drop:05/04/2010
Moved out:05/04/2010