Damn. You have one busy day and miss a lot.

So, I figure I'll catch up and start reading yours first. Holy cow!

Dude, for the first five pages, I was ready to say that you WERE 007. Totally relied on q's gadgets and had flipped the script as Sol says. Then, in one post, you flipped it a different wY altogether. I know it must have freaked you out, and that this is the woman you love. I get it.

She is desperate. Her silly super villian plan looked to be unraveling and she grasped for ANYTHING to get control of her fogged out world. I don't think it's even about controlling you any more. It's totally about her feeling no ability to control her destiny anymore.

Somebody, several people actually, warned about the potential for wildly unstable behavior. You are in danger right now. Not physically, but in every other way. Luckilly, right now she's focused on getting you back from the brink, hence the dramatics designed to focus you complete attention. With time to think, she will probably start to devise ways to hurt you. You need to act to protect yourself. Come up with a course of action to impliment first thing Monday morning. You need to financially insulate yourself and document this day, with as much detail and witnesses as you can.


Originally Posted By: dsh4320
all I have to say, is that although I dont know the Retro policy, if she did Flip like that today you shouldnt be at Retro. You should of called the cops, had an emergency detention order and her evaluated for 72 hours. No offense John but what the F^ck? I have posted before I have been a cop for 10 years, your W is not stable, and the Retro aint gonna FIX her. I dont know how much this site will help your sitch, I noticed you were off the board for quite some time today, you managed to have 5-6 pages added in a matter of 4 hours. The whole board was focused on your sitch, the support was definately there, and now your at REtro with W?

This is not good John, not at all. I want to support you buddy, but I cant fathom the fact that this is happening and your S seems to be the last concern, i dont agree with what either one of you are doing anymore.


Do not discount this advice from dsh. It's too late to act on some of it, but if it ever happens again, call the police. You will be protecting her, should she really Intend to hurt herself, and you will be protecting your future access to your son. Most importantly, you will be protecting him from being exposed to a very troubling situation. Your wife is not stable. Dsh is a cop and is trained to understand these things. If his instinct is telling him this is bad, bank on it.

God watch over you.


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs