Can't get my mind off of the sex thing lately though.
If it helps...it was a religious holiday and I conviced W to try and make it a good one for our kids despite being very close to a D. I decided to surprise them and went over last night, had dinner, dyed my girls hair, and then stayed overnight...which led to sex.
But it sucked...and I don't mean literally
When a R is safe and comfortable, then passion makes everything feel right. Don't get me wrong, as a guy, sex is still sex. But when D is looming and hope is failing, it just doesn't feel like it does when you're alone and thinking back to great days gone past.
Plus...sex is like food for guys, even if it is rare we have that need, yes? But like a food craving, it will pass.
The real question might be why now? What is reminding you about it today? Is it just physical and mast. doesn't cut it, or is it emotional and you're looking for feeling loved/valuable/needed? If you can find the trigger, maybe you'll get through your next batch of "withdrawl" soon.
