Ok, checked our account today. WAY more money than normal is being spent by her. I think her "Rent" means her bonus account has ran out and that was her lieing way of telling me, "Hey I'm not going to have enough money to help with the house".
My gut just "kinda" tells me she's paying for this dude too. This is disturbing.
Is this a test to see me react or are these concerns real?
Is this a reaction to being busted or not responding or both?
I can pull all my money if needed and just have agreement made up on how to settle.
I'm not freaking out or anything but this is a very different turn of events.
