sorry to break into this thread, but i noticed a certain similarity betw ur sitch and mine eeyore. how did u handle ur exposure? did W come clean? did u consider sep or was it W's idea? i have chosen spare BR and left her BR.
m not sure bout A and cannot monitor her secret phone or iphone although have aobo (like eblaster).
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_____________________________________________________________ M: 42 W: 40 T: 18y M: 15y S: 7y, 9y D: 4y, 13y, 15y OM1 - EA/PA 11/08 to 2/09 (old college love also lives in CT) exposed OM1 3/09, in hindsight did not come clean 100% stayed together w/ MC 5/09-9/09, no resolution DB'ing (probly not well enough) bc ILYBNILWY 3/10 (but stopped saying I love you 3/09) ML regularly though until 8/10 wants to party, "no connection" betw us W's FB is closed to me starting 3/10 OM2 - EA/PA 5/10-9/10 (lives in FL but working NY past 6 months just went back home 9/2/10), busted it 9/6/10 OMW2 - lives FL w/ 4 children and OM, estranged at times
