Thanks. We have a long way to go, but we're making slow progress.
The A has been busted for a while, and she's back in the bedroom. She is willing to ML occasionally (sometimes my idea, sometimes hers), but isn't willing to work on romance/intimacy yet. For now, she's fine with being roommates who have sex, but nothing more. Every now and again she tells me she's still mad at me for exposing the A and for cheating on her 17 years ago, before we were married (?!?), but she's still here.
Every day's an adventure...
Sorry for the hijack, RB. We're here to help if you need any more advice.
