OK, so I'm starting to see a pattern here. H texts me every day. Stupid, insignificant things - ex. yesterday - it's his weekend with the kids. He texts "plans changed. Staying with parents tomorrow night in case you missed them and wanted to get in touch". Then today (when he knows I'm out with friends) - "S wants to play in the band." OK - I don't even have a response to either of those things. I appreciate the info, I guess, but I have no response. These things are irrelevent in the grand scheme. I simply do not respond. I don't mean to be rude, but I just have nothing to say. Should I be looking at this differently?