Wow, I thought I was the only one here that had found photos of the affair......
Kalni,
Yes the past does creep up on ya now and then BUT.. Ya the OM was with my wife almost 3 years ago. SHE IS WITH ME NOW... I win he lost. I am still working on the trust issue... But the way I see it is that you and I need to work on ourselves now. We DBed... We grew...Now the only way the memories of the past can hurt us is if WE let them.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know