You guys are TOTALLY right. Mr. A is a cake-eater and he has been crossing every line imaginable. I'm setting a boundary tonight.
We spent the evening together yesterday. It had its share of problems, but it was more good than bad. I left for work this morning and he was still sleeping at the house - ok.
I didn't hear from him all day, then I went out with a friend tonight and he called. He said he was out with his friend and wanted to come over later. I said, what time? Not late, 10 p.m. I agreed.
Then I complained to my friend that I wanted to go out with Mr. A while he was on the town. Mr. A and I were right near each other at that point and it would have been very easy to meet! My friend said to go for it, so I called Mr. A. No answer. Then I texted him that I was in the area and wanted to meet up - no reply!
I'm fuming and have come home to find the house in shambles! Dishes, clothes, etc., everywhere!
Here's what I'm planning to text Mr. A:
"I called and texted you and you didn't even answer either one. If there's an explanation, let me know. If not, don't come over tonight."
