H just texted me,

"Do you have any tax money left? Don't get all $hitty, I'm asking cause for some reason my debit card was shutoff and I couldn't tell if they're sending another or not right away and that really screws me. If u did and u would be nice enough to loan I'd write u a check right away u could deposit next week."

Really? Just a few days ago he told me to shut the F up and said he couldn't stand me. And now he needs money so he's asking me? What about OW? I think she's just as poor as him.
They are so pathetic.

I know he's hurting REALLY bad for $. He's been applying for loans and all sorts of things. Looks like his lifestyle has caught up with him.

He is still paying ALL of our bills including things like my cell, bc I just work part time. The thing is - he borrowed $300 from me in July and STILL hasn't paid me back.

Any advice as to how I should respond?


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010