I like the plan where we split weeks and alternate. That is the plan I will propose. When the kids are with me I will cover any daycare costs and vice versa. There will be no child support ether way. All medical/dental bills will be 50/50. That is what I will propose. I am sure this will be unacceptable to her, but its a start.
TH, i am handling this case Pro Se, I have all the documentation from the last D that never went through. I do not need to pay an attorney thousands of dollars to state to the judge what I can state myself. I have courtroom experience through law enforcement and I have done my research on the judge hearing our case. He does not like game playing and he is usually very understanding of the Father's rights.
The W already has a few marks against her as far as game playing, enrolling S in a school without talking with me about it, taking him to a therapist without my input, and the first postponement.
I have not heard a thing from her after this morning, I started to think a little more about the past communication, she asked the same thing about insurance last week, and the same answers were given. Like I said her inquiry this morning about insurance was her way of initiating contact on something that has to do with the kids and does not have anything to do with the discussion last night.
I am sooooo glad i did not engage in the rest of last night's texts, I was so ready to lose it with her, and it would have got me absolutely no where. I will call the kids tonight to talk to them before bed and text her tomorrow that I will pick them up in the afternoon and bring them to church for second service sunday.
