Kissak, I am very sorry to see that he's still pretty much out there. The questioning he has done w/you is to see where your head is at and if you are getting frustrated by him being home and the things he has said and done. Unfortunately, the comments about you changing are all part of the processing of what has happened within himself. He's the one that's not changed and doing the work to repair the broken pieces within.
Please take care of yourself. You've done everything you possibly can to make life comfortable for him at home. Unfortunately, he's just not completely baked and it may be a while before that happens. Take a few days to get your mind and heart and a good place. You want to be as calm as possible when you talk to him about the situation.
We are all here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
