...He did agree to see a counselor with me on Sat. while he is home for the weekend....I am so happy for that ...He says he is sooooo uncomfortable talking to me because of his feelings so he has been avoiding me through not taking my calls....I deserve some communication from him!
So.......what in the hell do I do?-JMTP
Hi Sweetie,
Sorry to hear about your o so familiar situation..
I would like to strongly suggest that you go to the C and completely focus on Four things:
1) LISTENING (Do not talk much) 2) Agreeing (Do not argue with anything he says) "You are right, this marriage isn't working" 3) Validating (Let him know you hear him) "I can see why you would feel this way"
There are reasons to to this, but there is no way I can explain why right now.
