What do you think the community here would tell you to do if he was the WAS? We wouldn't advise act nice, accomodate him and wait for him to change. We would advise you to detach, set boundaries, GAL, take care of yourself, don't pursue, love your kids, do 180s and prepare for either outcome. The vets would strongly advise to "let him go." Let him decide to be in the marriage.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.