One of you has to go into to this with a framework or you're not going to get anywhere. That is not one side dictating. It's just saying this is what I think will work for all of us and then listening to her input. Then you can make adjustments as needed. I would also suggest that you do it by email not texts. Texts can get childish and heated very quickly. In an email, you can read and re-read to form your own response so you don't react too emotionally.
So go over what Robx posted about dividing the week, decide what you think might work and write a very business-like email to W. Post it here first. We'll help you get the emotion out.
