Originally Posted By: TAMF

and we may not ever love anyone the same agian, but I think that is okay. Doesn't mean we can't be happy and love again. It would just be different.

Do I sound crazy for thinking like this?


TAM,

I don't know if you realize the wisdom in what you jsut said up there.

and we may not ever love anyone the same agian

I hope I never love anyone the "WAY" (in the manner of) that I loved my W before.

I know this is not what you meant, I think you meant you may not love another person as much????

The more important thing here is "HOW" or the "WAY" we love the person we are in a R with next. Whether it is our spouses or someone else.

When I "Love" (verb) again it will be unconditionally.....meaning without expectation of anything in return. I will show my Love daily even if I am not getting the Love I desire in return. This is the internal work that needs to be done, it takes time.

Can I love again and be happy???? absolutely.

Just don't know when or with whom.....meanwhile I am learning to love myself and be happy with me.

You really hit the nail on the head and

you may be crazy....

Crazy like a Fox...


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