and we may not ever love anyone the same agian, but I think that is okay. Doesn't mean we can't be happy and love again. It would just be different.
Do I sound crazy for thinking like this?
TAM,
I don't know if you realize the wisdom in what you jsut said up there.
and we may not ever love anyone the same agian
I hope I never love anyone the "WAY" (in the manner of) that I loved my W before.
I know this is not what you meant, I think you meant you may not love another person as much????
The more important thing here is "HOW" or the "WAY" we love the person we are in a R with next. Whether it is our spouses or someone else.
When I "Love" (verb) again it will be unconditionally.....meaning without expectation of anything in return. I will show my Love daily even if I am not getting the Love I desire in return. This is the internal work that needs to be done, it takes time.
Can I love again and be happy???? absolutely.
Just don't know when or with whom.....meanwhile I am learning to love myself and be happy with me.
You really hit the nail on the head and
you may be crazy....
Crazy like a Fox...
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.