All of my tunnels have been Cheeseless...I need some Limburger(sp) or something so that I can pick up the scent...I know detach. I have printed and read the detachment article that PH sent me.
My W was defintely an enabler she relied on me for so much during the initial phases of our relationship as well as through her nursing school that things got out of control...she allowed it and never set boundaries and I wasn't aware that she needed her space, thus, didn't stop it.
