Tried to be upbeat and happy tonight when W came home. Asked how her day was and did not act beat down. Even laughed at some stuff that D said that was funny. It was very hard.
It sounds like a good start. I know how hard it is and wish you didn't have to go thru the pain. How did W respond to you?
Do you have any plans for the weekend? Try to get out of the house and do something...perhaps with D. I took my S somewhere every weekend...even if it was to a movie theater in another town. That way S and I weren't sitting around thinking about the sitch and to H it looked like our life will go on just fine without him.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
