I am so mad at your ex, everything he has put you through and this yet again. Again, you have to protect yourself and your children. Clearly he is not done. I see nothing wrong in being angry regarding his actions. He deserve it. Maybe it is time for some really tough love.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11