A new beginning to an end

[ClingingToHope]

On one of the other forums I read something that kind of put in perspective how it is when you are with the WAS. It's like being with an Alzheimers patient. They look just like the person you married. But that person is long gone, replaced by someone you don't know and who doesn't remember those times.

I didn't put it in those terms to D11. I'm not even sure how it came up. She was asking questions and I told her "I still love the STBXW I married. I don't really know the person she is now."