You have a small child and a bank account in which she has access to - and for the angry and manipulative WAS both of those entities are (sadly) often used as weapons.
Al of the above *can* be done in a non threatening way. Nobody is suggesting you be an a-hole about it but it's part of the process that must begin Monday.
Yeah, what she said
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