My walk away wife story

[40andsadintexas]

Dating is a dilemma. It is right when it is right for you. Do it when you are done with your marriage, and are mentally and emotionally there.
Keep the kids out of new relationships until the divorce is finalized, especially since they are young.
Dating is great for PMA, GAL, and getting on with your life. I say go for it. There are many who do not agree.
Just my 2 cents.

Part of me says this is one way to get over them, the other part says you’re a cheater just like her. Last night after I dropped the kids off I had dinner with the old ex girlfriend and I enjoyed the conversation, her big eyes when she talked, grabbing my hand and arm when she talked to me. It could have gone farther but it didn’t, but I woke up this morning wondering what to do. I don’t have a answer.

When you sure your marriage is over when is it ok to start dating, that’s my moral dilemma. Anyone want to weigh in with there feelings on this?

I think this is a really personal thing/choice.
If you are ready, go for it. If you are not completely over your stbx or ex, don't go there. If you want to want til D is final, then do it. Everyone will have a different response for this.

I am detached from stbex but not over her, there is no way I can be over 13 years or 1/3 of my life with her in 3 months. I still love her and would leave the door open for reconciliation on my terms, but I do not think there is any chance of this happening.