This is my issue with the MLC diagnosis Hope... It just paralyzes you.. I don't support it at all.

The research myself and others on the Infidelity forum are finding is that treating infidelity is the same, despite the cause of it...

MLC, Ego, Boredom, whatever.. it matters little, you attack the affair the same way according to infidelity experts... There is acknowledgement by Lusterman and others that there are different kinds of motivations for infidleity, but the TREATMENT is the same...

The MLC forum will disagree, and they are welcoem to their opinion there... I dont' invade their space or bring my arguments over there...

But that's my position and what I am finding from researching infideltiy on this forum and in expert documentation on cases... infidelity may have different reasons for starting but they END the SAME WAY - CONSEQUENCES

Last edited by Allen A; 09/10/10 06:31 PM.