I am basing my information on Puppy's comments throughout the site here and there. I have not read up on his threads of his sitch. However, based on some comments around the site, it appears that Mrs. Puppy did not have the "lost puppy" look or affect that is the universal signpost of a MLCer. Nor do I see any indication of a trauma in Mrs. Puppy's case. And Puppy busted the affair in 3 months and they reconcilled shortly thereafter. The classic signposts and timeline does not mesh with MLC in Mrs. Puppy's case. It is only my perspective.
Wonka Thank you very much for responding
I did read the PDT story and obviously I came to a different conclusion after reading it. I can only go by what was written by him on these boards. And while I am sure what is stated above is true, there is more to the story.
PDT chooses not to discuss it so I will respect his wishes.
However the amount of documented success stories here is slim. Now what I mean by the above statement is that although there are lots of great threads that explain everything up through the end of replay, not much is written about the stages afterwords. HeartBlessing gives great insight into it and I have spoken to her at length. I have been trying to find more information about the ending stages of MLC. Especially the breaking of withdrawal and acceptance stages.
BND sorry for the hijack, but all of this IS pertinent to MLC and whether to expose the affair or not. MLC is 6 stages not just "replay".
