Spoke to my stepmom today--my dad should pass sometime today they said.

I just really don't want to go up there--my H is like "your family is so effed up". I didn't say anything but I thought about that..

Later I went to him and said "Look, your family is not better than my family. Your sister didn't visit your Gmother even ONE time the last year before she died. You have NO room to talk." He was all apologetic and sorry.

Weird how he backs down to me now. Wish I'd had that reaction before when we were married!