"I've decided that I am not going to go to this weekend with you. I will not force you to go, and you do not want to go. Would you mind taking S4 for the weekend?" I said.
She was dumbfounded. I really don't think she expected me to do this. REALLY. She said, "Ok. Uhm. Well where are you going this weekend? What are you doing?"
Way to go, John! I am very proud of you!
Originally Posted By: futureunknown
How many times has she told you it's over? These WAW's are so ridiculous! They repeatedly say there is no hope, they are done, they don't want to work on the M anymore, blah, blah, blah. But then they use this threat of "Now it's REALLY over" as a method of control. It's OUTRAGEOUS! Don't stand for it.
The further I get from my situation, the more I see the truth in all this. The fact that the WAW uses the LBS's desire to save the M as a weapon of control is beyond selfish. It's vicious.
This could not be more accurate. And John, it is a great idea to get some legal advice. She's been playing games for awhile and you just FLIPPED the script (her own darn script) on her and now she is feeling like a ding dong. :)Well done! She did not expect you to ever do anything but cry beg and plead for her to come back to you and well, you did the exact opposite which has put her into a tailspin.
