She did text me again this morning asking about the kids insurance. I told her It will be in effect any day now. I asked if something was wrong. She said no, just in case something happened she wanted the insurance info.
SHe lead into the question today with something that is nonconfrontational. I answered her question, and that was it.
I want to have a plan similar to others. Anyone else who has followed my thread have any input?
Why would she needs to hit me where it hurts? she filed and I am not standing in her way? Thatt is what I dont get?
If you were in a fight with someone, would you hit them where it doesn't hurt? What would be the use of that?
Come up with a plan and propose it to her regarding shared custody of the kids.
No more weekend dad bull$hit.
Tell her what you want, don't be afraid, you never get more than what you ask for.
I don't know what you want as far as a schedule but you need to be clear about it and put it in front of her and let her know that this is what you want.
Do you want an entire week and weekend with the kids and then swap weeks with her?
Monday to friday, saturday & sunday and then she gets the kids for the same amount of time?
Split the week in half and then swap every other weekend?
Monday - Wed with you, thurs - friday with her, weekend for you and then alternate this with her the next week, mon - wed with her, thurs-friday with you, weekend with her, etc.
You need to come up with a plan and present it to her, you're the man, come up with the plan, stan ;-) (and if you have kids, maybe get a mini van)
and Doodi,
