((((Aver)))) I posted on your thread & thought I should post my own cr*p on my own thread! Anyway thanks for your thougths -- I dont' know if my D is so complicated, or the people involved are!
At this point, I'm ready to finish, but instead playing the waiting game. And I dont' know why he isn't turbo-charging this sep. agrmt. through since there should be absolutely no barriers now:
Let's see, I've agreed to his wanting to pay only $500 more than $1500 on the cr. card debt.
And, he gets to pay me less than stated before of his 401K to equalize it -- so much time has passed that I have more $ in my 401K now!!
But as I shared on your thread, for the past 2 weeks, nothing's happened. I follow up w L. And she hasn't heard anything.
I know I was the dragger for a long time, trying my best DB with some misguided, but well intended advice to not help move it along. Well back then there was a silver of hope. But no more.
This paying 1/2 the mortgage & also rent to my brother, although low, is getting expensive! Plus writing a check to L ea. month. True it's let when all she has to bill me for is a few emails, but also her time in getting a response is not free!
So maybe I'll call her. What exactly is the deal? I'm so tired of it all. I still hate going through with this, but it's really dragging on. And coming from me, that means it's REALLY dragging on! It's like having surgery, and the dr. has started the cut - with no anesthetic. Horribly, incredibly painful at first. But I'm so used to that knife stuck in me, it's just a dull ache now. And I can't do anything, I can't move fwd. as long as they keep this knife here. Let's finish the amputation already!!!!
Time to get back to work. I hope everyone is doing great, I have been off the boards a while, hope to catch up & see if I can maybe help. Sending hugs and best wishes for success on your paths. (((()))))
