I am 95% sure my marriage is over, my stbex has not given me one single action that makes me think any different. When we first separated I made a couple of mistakes with a old girlfriend, I still see the old girlfriend but have not made any repeat mistakes since the end of June. I know its morally wrong what I did because I am still legally married. I am also trying to get my kids away from her because she keeps taking my kids around all the OM, so if I'm messing around that’s kind of like the pot calling the kettle black.
I think I have pretty much detached, I love the time I spend with my kids I think I relate to them much better now than I did when I was at home, I exercise and hang out with some old friends, but something is missing.
When you sure your marriage is over when is it ok to start dating, that’s my moral dilemma. Anyone want to weigh in with there feelings on this?


M40, W 37
M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
D date 10-14-10
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