pookie,

I agree and I am not pessimistic about my sitch....I am frustrated and that is my controlling nature coming out, but I keep at bay here on the post and not towards my W...I did add the cupcake humor to the email today. And I quell my support group at home when I hear the word "hope". Hope things change by sitting around gets you nowhere. So I have to focus on what I control and prepare for the future.

That is why I was talking about addressing my sitch on multiple fronts...controlling what I can control...my GAL and detaching. I am reading the attachment that PH sent me. And making sure that I am prepared once my W starts moving. I don't want to act on pure emotion, so I guess that is where GAL and detaching come in.

So I thought we could get another 100 posts on dryer sheets started today...what do you think? Or how about developing a cookbook created by all of the LBH's? This sounds marketable....