Kissak,

I am so sorry that it has come to this. You are so grounded this time around. I see no panic in your reactions or actions. I can tell that while you are sad you are not afraid. This will be difficult and he will turn this around on you but you know in your heart that there truly is nothing more you could have done.

hugs and love to you and the kids.
~ swl

Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}