I didn't acknowledge my W's birthday or our anniversary (same day), except to take the kids to get her gifts from them.
In fact, I went out and stayed out all night without so much as a phone call or text to let her know that I would not be home.
I don't know if that helped or hurt my situation, but I didn't think I needed to acknowledge either since she had already filed for D. We are separated now.
Yes, all correct. It didn't hurt it so don't worry.
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When she sends me an email she will usually put no "greeting" such as "hi XXXX" and will usually begin it with either my first initial or nothing. She just ends it with her first initial. I know that's not her normal email style. When I respond I always begin with "Hi XXXX" and finish with "Rgds" "Cheers" etc. in other-words I always sound upbeat and friendly. Judging by her responses I think this annoys her.
Add a confidentially statement to your emails then always respond to her replied emails, so you end up with a bazillion of them at the bottom. Then when she asks a question a second time, you can respond with "I already answered that. Read from the bottom up." That will end the email arguments quick ; -)
I am guessing so as that is the only way she could have known we were camping this weekend. I really don't care if she looks through my email and I make no attempt to hide them. All they tell her is that i am getting on with life and that seems to be what pi$$es her off. She knows and likes lot of the people on them that i am hanging out with.
Well happy and upbeat it is then as that's the way I feel. What's the worst she can do LEAVE :-)
Luckily I have managed to separate the rest of my life from my M sitch and aside from the M problems everything is going fine. Not to minimize the affect that is having on me but it is what it is. Life and Time are precious and we need to enjoy them as much as we can.
Well happy and upbeat it is then as that's the way I feel. What's the worst she can do LEAVE :-)
Luckily I have managed to separate the rest of my life from my M sitch and aside from the M problems everything is going fine. Not to minimize the affect that is having on me but it is what it is. Life and Time are precious and we need to enjoy them as much as we can.
should have been spelled "confidentiality statement" 10 -15 0f those in an email thread annoys the day right out of me
Originally Posted By: Khudoo
Back to the original question
Cold clinical emails
or
Happy upbeat emails ( which seem to bug her )
anyhow. really? does it matter? are you her puppet? Will she dump the other guy depending on how you send your emails? or if you mix 'em up or sign them with a scene kid screen name, xxXXXxx~oooooo_HARDcore_pinHEAD_oooooo~RawRR~xxXXXxx.
wasnt your question: Re: Questions for the Letting Go Vets [Re: Khudoo]
let go. stop worrying about DA stuff and live your life! If there is any chance of winning over a woman it will be your confidence, and swagger before your email etiquette.
