So long, and thanks for the fish

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Hi Aver! Just checking in on you, hope all is going well.

I know the trepidation about the mail, I still get it when I see an envelope from my L. Then I remember, it's my monthly bill. Unless it's thick, then I start to get unnerved.

Same thing with email from L, and H. Although those are extremely rare. The past 2 weeks I've been following up dutifully w my L, b/c we've sent our reply to the last "nastygram" from H's L.

I've agreed to his wanting to pay only $500 more than $1500 on the cr. card debt. Tired of this.

And, he gets to pay me less than stated before of his 401K to equalize it -- so much time has passed that I have more $ in my 401K now!! But for the past 2 weeks, I follow up w L. And she hasn't heard anything.

This paying 1/2 the mortgage & also (low) rent to my brother is getting expensive!

Sorry to post my personal update on your thread. I really want to hear how you're doing. I am fine. Waiting for the other she to drop.

Sending you (((hugs)))), and lots of good thoughts. Have a great weekend. (((()))))