What Pinhead says sounds wise. I think it would be good for you to meet with the lawyer and see what immediate steps he will advise right now to protect yourself and your S. You don't need to go and fire a cannon at your W, but it's good to know your options.
I've already done that with another L. He advised me to work with W as much as I could and goto mediation so I could have a say in what I get and it wouldn't be up to L's.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
