Get a danged bulldog attorney because you need to protect you and your child. You are not a victim anymore. Get ahead of her. You can do this. Boy Scout Motto: Be Prepared.
AGREE.
Don't worry. It's in my bag. I spoke with the President of our company who is "old blood, old money" where we live, (capital of our State) and gave him my sitch. He was upset because he likes my W so much, but asked if he could do anything for me.
I asked him to get me the best L he knew of.
He said fortunately he hasn't gone through this but he would ask his BIL who is an attorney as well as the Country Club (old money) he belongs to. He came back to me 1 day later with a name saying, "All the people I spoke with said use this person. All of them".
It's in my deck. too early to play right now.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch