Doing well Spinfree, thanks for asking. The kids are fine too, as far as I can tell. I did hear our middle child ask his mom "Why don't you come back to the house? It's fun here!"
I didn't hear my W's mumbled reply. Sounded like she just dismissed the question and my son let it go.
I'm going to follow up with my lawyer today to see what is taking him so long with my paperwork. My W is going overseas for two weeks on a church mission, so nothing will be done on her side in the interim, but I'd like to have my changes incorporated into the documents to get them ready to submit to her when she returns.
She's been going through her benefits at her new job and we sat down to plan out the choices. She kept referring to what "we" will elect for the next year, since she has to repeat the process in January. Not from the standpoint of the implications of us being divorced, but planning for our normal family expenses for 2011.
She seems to be in denial that there is no "we" for 2011. I plan on getting all of this ended before the holidays.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09